Can an abuser truly change? According to advocates at the Domestic Abuse Resistance Team (DART), the answer depends entirely on whether an individual is willing to confront ingrained patterns of power and control and actively choose accountability.
Founded in 1994, DART provides support and resources to domestic abuse survivors while working to address the root causes of relationship violence. Advocates emphasize that lasting behavioral change is not driven by affection, promises, or temporary reprieves, but by sustained accountability over time.
Excuses vs. Root Causes
In examining domestic violence, DART notes that public perception often mistakenly links abusive behavior to external factors such as mental illness, substance abuse, combat trauma, or childhood abuse. However, advocates clarify that these circumstances are excuses rather than root causes.
While issues such as alcohol or substance dependency can elevate the risk of abuse, resolving addiction does not eliminate abusive tendencies on its own. As DART points out, treating substance abuse in an abusive individual simply results in a “sober abuser,” as most people facing similar life challenges never abuse their partners.
Instead, abusive behavior stems from a belief of entitlement to power, control, and discipline over a partner.
The Role of Intervention Programs
A common path toward accountability involves Batterer Intervention Programs (BIPs). However, the vast majority of participants enter BIPs under a court order following an arrest for domestic violence, often utilizing the program as an alternative to jail time.
Because many domestic violence offenses occur privately and are never reported to law enforcement, advocates warn that relatively few abusers are subjected to court-mandated intervention. Voluntary enrollment in BIPs remains exceptionally low, leaving many abusers outside the reach of formal accountability measures.
Guidance for Survivors
DART offers three core reminders for survivors and the community:
- Accountability over affection: Abusers do not change simply because they are loved enough; change occurs only when they choose personal accountability.
- Actions over words: Promises are not proof of reform. Lasting change is demonstrated only through consistent behavior over time.
- Trust instincts early: Survivors do not need to wait for abuse to escalate again before trusting their instincts or seeking assistance.
Resources and Assistance
Individuals seeking support or guidance regarding domestic abuse can contact the DART Winn Parish Office:
Address: 301 W. Main St., Suite B 216, Winnfield, LA 71483
Phone: (318) 648-0559